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Allie & Becca Calegari

Digital creator
@ladyandthegentlewoman
Celebrating life one sip, dinner & story at a time 🍷 Food & Wine • Simple Hosting • Intentional Travel 📍 Napa, California
  • Travel
  • Food & beverage
  • Food & Drink
  • Cuisine
  • Travel Influencers
  • Following 1.6K
  • Followers 92.9K
  • Engagement 0.55%
  • Avg comments 48

About Allie & Becca Calegari

Allie & Becca Calegari (@ladyandthegentlewoman) is a Digital creator creator on Instagram, also filed under Travel and Food & beverage. The account has 92,896 followers and 911 published posts. Recent posts average 493 likes and 48 comments, an engagement rate of 0.55%.

With 92.9K followers, Allie & Becca Calegari is a micro creator by the common 10,000 to 100,000 definition. Set against 1,637 accounts followed, the audience works out to about 57 followers per account Allie & Becca Calegari follows. Allie & Becca Calegari carries Instagram's verified badge and uses an Instagram professional account. Flinque files Allie & Becca Calegari under 6 categories, led by Digital creator and followed by Travel, Food & beverage, Food & Drink, Cuisine and Travel Influencers.

The Instagram bio for Allie & Becca Calegari runs to 17 words across 3 lines. Emoji sit alongside the words. The latest activity Flinque has on record for Allie & Becca Calegari dates from January 2026.

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911 Posts

Of the 10 most recent posts shown for Allie & Becca Calegari, 6 are videos and 4 are carousels. That mix leans toward videos. Allie & Becca Calegari has built a substantial archive of 911 posts. Against the audience, that is roughly 102 followers for each post published. Allie & Becca Calegari also keeps 9 story highlights on the profile. All 10 carry captions, averaging 111 words each. The captions are written mainly in English. Words that recur across them include hosting, it’s, without, light and party. The captions tag #hosting, #dinnerpartyideas, #dinnerparty, #wlwcouple and #marriottbonvoypartner.

This is our love language 🕯️🤍

Setting the table and seeing it all come together right before guests arrive really does it for us! It’s the prep, the intention, and the slowness of it all that’s just as special as the meal itself.

Ciao & Cheers Snowflake Soirée dinner party reveal up next! ❄️

📷:, edited by us ✨

#dinnerpartyideas #hosting #dinnerparty #tablesettingideas
First Ciao & Cheers of the year! The theme is Snowflake Soirée. ❄️ It’s warm, cozy, intimate, and exactly what we need after two weeks of rest. We’re keeping it small this time with just family! ✨

Taking you behind the scenes of the setup tomorrow. 🤍

#dinnerpartyideas #hosting #dinnerparty
We took two weeks off social media. Scroll for what filled the space instead →

The first few days we were anxious about it. The instinct to document was so ingrained. But then, relief. Space. Presence.

We had a private yurt dinner and took photos for the memories, not the content. We lingered over New Year’s Day cotechino and lentils (Italian tradition for luck) without timing it for light. We went on wine tastings across Napa Valley and just experienced them. 🤍

We rediscovered the dolce far niente, the Italian art of the sweetness of doing nothing. And in doing nothing, we remembered everything. ✨

Here’s what we’re taking into 2026: Rest isn’t a reward, it’s a requirement. Pushing through exhaustion doesn’t make us more dedicated, it destabilizes our nervous system.

Rest is what keeps us creative, clear-headed, and actually present. 🙌🏼

We probably won’t take two full weeks again anytime soon, but we will protect the pauses. The moments without the scroll. The dinners without documentation. 🤍

What would you do with two weeks off social media?
Christmas with the Calegaris! Wishing you a very merry, cozy little holiday from our family to you and yours. 🎄🎁

Last photo is my favorite 🥹🤍

#wuhluhwuh #wlwcouple #christmas2025
You know when a place just takes care of you and you don’t have to think about anything? That. ✨

We kicked off anniversary celebrations at the Renaissance Esmeralda in Palm Springs and our membership handled the rest.
Swipe through!

We had an upgraded room waiting for us, breakfast covered as Platinum Elite, and late checkout so the mornings could stretch..

..but the last slide is the one that matters most. 🤍

I wonder where we’ll go do the “us thing” next! With Marriott Bonvoy the world is our oyster. 🥰

#MarriottBonvoyPartner #MarriottPartner #MarriottBonvoy
May we all be blessed with miracles whenever we need them. 🤍

If seeing these moments from our Sip & Spin pj brunch & movie marathon inspires you to do anything, let it be this:

✨find the magic around you that lights up the darkness and celebrate it. Even the little things.✨

Fill your home with warmth. Spend time with the people you care about. Host little gatherings. Even the small ones, especially the small ones.

There’s something so special about slowing down, gathering around a table (full of bagels and latkes), and creating moments that matter. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be intentional.

Happy last night of Hanukkah 🕎

#hanukkah #hosting #happyhanukkah #brunchideas #wlw
Living room is ready for a little pre-NYE NYE party! 🪩

There’s something about the setup process that we can’t get enough of!! Allie loves layering in the details and I love helping her bring it all together. For our Stroke of Midnight-themed aperitivo, we’re using ’s NYE collection to create an elevated-but-effortless vibe. ✨

Because here’s the thing: memorable hosting doesn’t require perfection, it just requires the right details. Their beautiful, intentional party goods do the heavy lifting that make it easy to celebrate without the stress.

Find everything you need for your New Year’s celebration at Paper Source. Because the magic starts long before midnight. 🥂

#PaperSourcePartner #hosting #newyearseveparty #wlwcouple #entertainingathome
We came back to Palm Springs to kick off our anniversary celebrations and stayed at the Renaissance Esmeralda Resort & Spa. 💍🌴 upgraded our room before we even asked, complimentary breakfast came with being Platinum Elite, and late checkout meant slow mornings with the mountains. None of it was asked for, but all of it was felt. That’s the thing about loyalty that works both ways: you keep showing up, and so do they. ✨

#MarriottBonvoyPartner #MarriottPartner #MarriottBonvoy
A glimpse into our Hanukkah Sip & Spin brunch ✨

Hanukkah began this week. It’s one of the major Jewish holidays all about light, resilience, miracles, and hope. According to legend, a miracle happened, and oil that should have lasted one night burned for eight. It’s a reminder that no matter how challenging times are, there is always magic around to light up the darkness. 🕯️

In our household, it’s a moment where we blend Allie’s Italian culture with my Jewish heritage to create our very own meaningful traditions. 🤍

So much of the Jewish experience is about celebrating through challenging moments and finding joy even when it feels hard to find.

What you see in this carousel is our imperfectly perfect pajama party. We ate our weight in bagels, latkes, and treats while binge-watching the best Hanukkah movies (all of which happen to be on!). There were egg & horseradish toasties, mini latkes, and all the best bagel toppings.

It was Allie’s innate ability to create a beautiful, intimate space to gather and bring people together on full display.

But in our current climate, it takes a lot of courage to share this. Still, we are here, focusing on the light this holiday has always brought us and the blessings we have been given this past year. I hope it will inspire you to do the same.

Hanukkah Sameach. Happy Hanukkah. 🕎
xo Becca

#hanukkah #hosting #happyhanukkah #brunchideas
She’s never asked for the spotlight, but she’s always been ours. ✨

When asked us to share our Sunshine Spotlight to celebrate a woman who inspires us, we didn’t have to think twice. For Allie, the answer has been there her whole life. For me, she became that answer the moment I became part of this family.

So we surprised her with a quiet holiday brunch on her rooftop in our favorite city. Just the three of us, gathered around a simple table with wine that has meaning. 🍷

Because the most inspiring women aren’t always the ones we read about. Sometimes they’re just mamma— steady, constant, the kind of love that shapes you without ever asking for credit.

Here’s to the women who bring us home to each other. The ones whose light never dims. 🤍

#dropofsunshinepartner #sunshinespotlight
#motherdaughters #nycholidays #christmasseason

Allie & Becca Calegari's engagement

Allie & Becca Calegari's engagement rate on Instagram is 0.55%, under 1%, fewer than 1 like or comment per 100 followers. On a typical post that comes to about 1 like or comment for every 182 followers. An average post collects 493 likes and 48 comments, close to 10 likes for each comment.

Engagement rate

0.55%

Avg likes
493
Avg comments
48
Interactions : followers
1 : 182

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Who is Allie & Becca Calegari?

Allie & Becca Calegari (@ladyandthegentlewoman) is a Digital creator creator on Instagram, also filed under Travel and Food & beverage. Allie & Becca Calegari carries Instagram's verified badge and uses an Instagram professional account. The Instagram bio for Allie & Becca Calegari runs to 17 words across 3 lines.

How many followers does Allie & Becca Calegari have?

Allie & Becca Calegari has 92,896 followers on Instagram (92.9K). Set against 1,637 accounts followed, the audience works out to about 57 followers per account Allie & Becca Calegari follows. Allie & Becca Calegari has built a substantial archive of 911 posts.

What is Allie & Becca Calegari's engagement rate?

Allie & Becca Calegari's engagement rate on Instagram is 0.55%, under 1%, fewer than 1 like or comment per 100 followers. On a typical post that comes to about 1 like or comment for every 182 followers. An average post collects 493 likes and 48 comments, close to 10 likes for each comment.

What does Allie & Becca Calegari post about on Instagram?

Flinque files Allie & Becca Calegari under 6 categories, led by Digital creator and followed by Travel, Food & beverage, Food & Drink, Cuisine and Travel Influencers. Of the 10 most recent posts shown for Allie & Becca Calegari, 6 are videos and 4 are carousels. The 10 recent Instagram captions Flinque holds for Allie & Becca Calegari repeatedly use the words hosting, it’s, without, light and party. Allie & Becca Calegari's captions carry hashtags such as #hosting, #dinnerpartyideas and #dinnerparty. Allie & Becca Calegari writes those captions mainly in English. Allie & Becca Calegari keeps 9 story highlights, which open with a free Flinque account.

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