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- Followers 1M
- Engagement 14.65%
- Avg likes 174.5K
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About Deborah L. Tillman
Deborah L. Tillman (@drdeborahpurposedparenting) is a Parenting creator on Instagram, also filed under Children and Child Development. The account has 1,012,525 followers and 243 published posts. Recent posts average 174,492 likes and 2,998 comments, an engagement rate of 14.65%.
Deborah L. Tillman is a macro creator, with 1M followers inside the 1 million to 10 million band. Deborah L. Tillman follows just 78 accounts, which leaves well over 1,000 followers for every account followed. Deborah L. Tillman carries Instagram's verified badge and is set up as an Instagram business account. Flinque files Deborah L. Tillman under 3 categories, led by Parenting and followed by Children and Child Development.
The Instagram bio for Deborah L. Tillman runs to 21 words across 4 lines. The latest activity Flinque has on record for Deborah L. Tillman dates from April 2026.
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243 Posts
Of the 10 most recent posts shown for Deborah L. Tillman, 9 are videos and 1 is a carousel. That mix leans toward videos. 243 published posts give Deborah L. Tillman a moderate archive on Instagram. Against the audience, that is roughly 4,167 followers for each post published. Deborah L. Tillman also keeps 3 story highlights on the profile. All 10 carry captions, averaging 130 words each. The captions are written mainly in English. Words that recur across them include system, every, parentsupport, parentingos and second. The captions tag #parentsupport, #parentingos, #parentcoach, #parenting and #purposedparenting.
State the limit once: "Bedtime is now. You're staying in bed." The second they get out, you walk them back. No words, no eye contact, no tucking in again. Just the walk and the bed.
Water. Bathroom. Monsters. All of it gets the same silent walk back.
The first few nights will be long. They will test it. They will cry. Hold the response. The spike is the system installing. One hard week buys you a year of closed bedtimes.
The system only works when every adult in the house runs it. If one person holds the line and another lets them stay up, the child waits for the one who lets them stay up.
Within 7 to 10 nights, the trips drop to zero.
The Parenting OS has the full bedtime system. Head to my page, the link is in my bio.
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The child learns that running produces attention, engagement, and a chase. So they run again. Words only work when a consequence backs them. Running just has never cost them anything.
Before you walk in, say it once: "Stay beside me. If you run, we leave." The second they run, you secure them and walk out. One sentence in the parking lot: "We left because you didn't stay beside me." Then silence.
The consequence doesn't end at the car. The park, the playdate, the treat, all of it is off.
Leaving today costs you one errand. Staying and chasing costs you every trip after it.
When the cost of running is higher than the fun of running, it stops. That's when the system installs.
The Parenting OS has the full system for public behavior. Head to my page and the link is in my bio. #ParentSupport #Parenting #PurposedParenting #ParentCoach #ParentingOS
Set the timer. One sentence. “When it beeps, shoes on and bag ready.”
Check it.
Shoes on. Bag ready. Then door.
The morning installs through repetition, not volume.
It doesn't matter if it started as a fight or came out of nowhere. If hitting has no immediate consequence, it continues.
The second hands become unsafe, you move in. Separate their bodies. No lectures, no long explanations. Stop the behavior. State the rule once: "If hands are used, the activity stops." Then execute it immediately. Activity ends. Both kids separate. No second chances.
When the consequence is predictable, the hitting stops because hitting stops working.
The Parenting OS has the full system.
#PurposedParenting #ParentCoach #ParentSupport #ParentingCommunity #ParentingOS
Every time it appears, the child learns the system bends. And every time it bends, the next refusal comes faster.
One meal. Prepared once. Served once. No backup, no negotiation. Say it once before the plate hits the table: “This is dinner tonight.” Then say nothing else about the food. Set a 30-minute timer. When it ends, the plate clears.
A child who is hungry will eat what is served.
The system only works when everyone in the house runs it. If one person closes the kitchen and another opens it, the child waits for the one who opens it.
You decide what’s served. They decide what they eat. That’s the system.
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Children aren't born knowing where the line is. They're taught it. And what goes uncorrected today becomes harder to correct tomorrow.
The moment they hit, you stop everything. Take their hands, meet their eyes, say it once: "We don't hit." No explanation, no emotion. Then lift them off your lap and place them down. No anger, no explanation. The action confirms what the words already said.
Correction is not a discussion. It's a boundary executing in real time. Boundaries don't explain themselves.
The child does not grow into discipline. The parent builds it in.
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The consequence is immediate. You pick them up and leave. No explaining, no negotiating, no finishing the errand.
Leaving today costs you one grocery run. Staying and negotiating costs you every one after it.
Once outside, one sentence: "We left because you hit the floor." Then silence. No repeating, no negotiating, no second chance to go back in.
The rules don't change because you're in a store. When that holds every time, the meltdowns stop.
The Parenting OS has the system for before the tantrum starts and the exact response for when it happens anyway.
Children aren't born knowing where the line is. They're trained into it.
What you don't correct today becomes what you can't control tomorrow.
Here's what to do instead:
The moment they hit:
Stop everything. Grab their hands. Meet their eyes.
"We don't hit."
Firm. Immediate. Done.
Then:
Slide them off your lap. Sit them down.
No anger. No explanation.
The action confirms what the words already said.
Correction is not a discussion—it's a boundary being set in real time.
Boundaries don't explain themselves.
The child does not grow into discipline. The parent builds it in.
This is one protocol from The Parenting OS, infrastructure that installs boundaries the first time.
Every alternative you offered taught them: hold out long enough, more choices appear.
You trained the behavior you’re trying to stop.
Here’s what to install:
Step 1: Place the option in front of them.
“This is the toy that’s available today.”
Step 2: When they push it away, you don’t replace it.
No backup options. No negotiating.
Step 3: Hold the line.
“You may choose this one or choose none.”
If screaming starts: Pick them up and leave. No warning. No countdown. No explanation.
The environment closes the moment behavior starts.
The child isn’t confused, they’re responding to what the system trained them to expect.
Once this structure is installed, the behavior corrects.
This is one protocol from The Parenting OS, infrastructure that stops public meltdowns before they start.
#Parenting #ParentSupport #ParentingCommunity #ParentingOS #ParentingTips
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Staying calm when a child hits you doesn’t teach control. It teaches permission.
Children don’t absorb discipline by osmosis. They learn it through systems that hold firm, even when emotions run high.
The Parenting OS is the operating system for your home. 25 of the most challenging parenting moments from children ages 0-5, each with pre-installed systems of structure and responses so you never have to improvise under pressure.
The goal isn’t to punish. It’s to install a rule that stands every time.
Install The Parenting OS today.
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Deborah L. Tillman's engagement
Deborah L. Tillman's engagement rate on Instagram is 14.65%, over 6%, more than 6 likes and comments per 100 followers. On a typical post that comes to about 1 like or comment for every 7 followers. Likes outnumber comments by roughly 58 to 1, with 174,492 likes and 2,998 comments on an average post, so most reactions are taps rather than replies.
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Who is Deborah L. Tillman?
Deborah L. Tillman (@drdeborahpurposedparenting) is a Parenting creator on Instagram, also filed under Children and Child Development. Deborah L. Tillman carries Instagram's verified badge and is set up as an Instagram business account. The Instagram bio for Deborah L. Tillman runs to 21 words across 4 lines.
How many followers does Deborah L. Tillman have?
Deborah L. Tillman has 1,012,525 followers on Instagram (1M). Deborah L. Tillman follows just 78 accounts, which leaves well over 1,000 followers for every account followed. 243 published posts give Deborah L. Tillman a moderate archive on Instagram.
What is Deborah L. Tillman's engagement rate?
Deborah L. Tillman's engagement rate on Instagram is 14.65%, over 6%, more than 6 likes and comments per 100 followers. On a typical post that comes to about 1 like or comment for every 7 followers. Likes outnumber comments by roughly 58 to 1, with 174,492 likes and 2,998 comments on an average post, so most reactions are taps rather than replies.
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Flinque files Deborah L. Tillman under 3 categories, led by Parenting and followed by Children and Child Development. Of the 10 most recent posts shown for Deborah L. Tillman, 9 are videos and 1 is a carousel. The 10 recent Instagram captions Flinque holds for Deborah L. Tillman repeatedly use the words system, every, parentsupport, parentingos and second. Deborah L. Tillman's captions carry hashtags such as #parentsupport, #parentingos and #parentcoach. Deborah L. Tillman writes those captions mainly in English. Deborah L. Tillman keeps 3 story highlights, which open with a free Flinque account.
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