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About Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach
Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach (@diapers_to_wings) is a Personal blog creator on Instagram, also filed under Travel. The account has 349,534 followers and 835 published posts. Recent posts average 11,014 likes and 106 comments, an engagement rate of 2.69%.
An audience of 349.5K puts Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach in the mid-tier, between 100,000 and 1 million followers. Set against 3,224 accounts followed, the audience works out to about 108 followers per account Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach follows. Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach carries Instagram's verified badge and uses an Instagram professional account. Flinque files Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach under Personal blog, with Travel as a secondary category.
The Instagram bio for Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach runs to 19 words across 8 lines. Emoji sit alongside the words. The latest activity Flinque has on record for Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach dates from September 2025.
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1. A great game of Mind and Memory.
Remember where the tiles are kept. Match pictures, make pairs and win! The game offers 3-4 categories of Match. A small easy to carry great for travel pack!
2. Pre school worksheets - Annual Curriculum aligned Your no prep worksheets for all academic learning from Nursery to Upper Kg. More than 1200+ worksheets in each box covering all categories.
3.Stick a Story -
More than 100+ stickers and 10 story sheets. Build your story by sticking relevant stickers and then read them. Great for Fine Motors and Reading skills.
4. Quick Quest -
A great gifting option. Great engaging game of quick responses across various categories.
5. Origami Theatre -
Fold and build characters from an easy to understand Origami book. There are 4 popular stories with story background and material to have a puppet show. Great for team work, public speaking and narration.
I’m Shivani Kudva Your Counsellor and Educator. Link in bio to meet me.
Please Check this❤️
“Fear can stop a behaviour. It cannot build a child.”
Many of us were raised believing that hitting, yelling, threatening or punishing creates discipline.
Sometimes it does create obedience.
But neuroscience reminds us of something deeper:
Behaviour may change… while the child’s inner voice quietly changes too.
Instead of learning:
✨ “I can repair my mistakes.”
✨ “My feelings are manageable.”
✨ “I am loved even when I struggle.”
They may begin believing:
• “I am bad.”
• “Love depends on my behaviour.”
• “I should hide my mistakes.”
• “Fear is how relationships work.”
Children don’t need parents who never make mistakes.
They need parents who are willing to repair them.
Discipline isn’t about controlling a child’s behaviour.
It’s about teaching the skills they don’t yet have.
✨ 4 Ways to Repair a Disconnected Relationship
❤️ Apologise sincerely when you lose your temper. Repair builds trust.
❤️ Spend 10 minutes of uninterrupted connection every day—no teaching, no correcting.
❤️ Validate feelings before solving behaviour: “I can see you’re upset.”
❤️ Create safety by reminding your child: “Nothing you do can make you lose my love.”
✨ 4 Better Ways to Discipline
🌱 Stay calm before responding. A regulated brain teaches regulation.
🌱 Set clear, respectful boundaries with logical consequences—not punishment.
🌱 Teach replacement skills instead of simply stopping behaviour. (“Let’s practise what to do instead.”)
🌱 Focus on connection first, correction second. Children learn best when they feel safe.
Years from now, your child won’t remember every rule.
They’ll remember how your voice became their inner voice.
Choose the voice they’ll carry for life. ❤️
I’m Shivani Kudva Your Educator and Counsellor. I help you Repair Any Relationship at Any Point in life. Link in bio to meet me.
#diapers_to_wings
I, Aditi (Certified Parenting Coach who shares real life experiences on parenting) and Shivani, Your Counsellor and Play Expert who guides with Everything related to Children, Healing, Relationships, Play and Parenting.
She cries more easily, snaps over tiny things, or suddenly wants to be left alone.
Many parents wonder,
“How can puberty already be starting? She’s only 8, 9 or 10!”
The truth is that puberty doesn’t begin with the first period. It begins much earlier.
Between 8–11 years, the brain starts sending signals to wake up the ovaries. As hormones like oestrogen begin to fluctuate, a young girl’s body and brain start preparing for adolescence.
This hormonal shift can bring:
Frequent headaches or migraines
Bloating and digestive discomfort
Mood swings and emotional sensitivity
Fatigue
Body aches
Breast tenderness
Changes in appetite and sleep
These symptoms are real. They’re not “attention-seeking” or “overreacting.”
A young brain is learning to adapt to a completely new hormonal environment while still developing emotional regulation. The prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for planning, impulse control and emotional regulation—is still maturing. That means she needs co-regulation before correction.
As parents, our role is not to dismiss these changes but to become her safe place.
Primarily,
Indulge and Explore Sports as much as possible. This massively regulates hormones🤗
Here’s what you practically do -
Emotional strength - don’t take the anger. Help them cool down and relax. Don’t Explain Them Teens and Hormones yet🤗 just gentle.
Read and Watch Good Content. Mind drives the Body. Avoid Over Age Content.
💛 Prioritise sleep, hydration, nutritious food and daily movement.
💛 Reduce stress and excessive screen time.
💛 Create conversations without shame around growing up.
Let’s prepare our daughters for puberty with knowledge, compassion and connection, not confusion and fear.
🌼 Because every strong woman was once a little girl trying to understand why her body suddenly felt different.
#diapers_to_wings #spectramom
Let me take you through this difference🤗
6 year olds are going to grade 1 because they’re Physically and Mentally ready to take the big plunge.
But….
Every big jump has baby steps.
This is Not Easy.
Yes, initially the new box, the new bag, new tiffins and everything is so Enticing but when the Real School and Long Hours hit in, it becomes a Herculean task to send them to school again the next day!
Read through the slides to understand a child’s psyche about joining big school.
Here’s what we can do -
1. Sleep sleep sleep well! Nothing else works so well! Good sleep, good rest - Good Tolerance.
2. Skip the Homework struggles for a first few months. This grind has to go on forever. Help them be Centered first🤗
3. Focus more on Talking, Conversations, spending time alone and laughing to release the stress.
4. Feed Balanced and Right meals because Two important meals are in school and they may Not be fully set yet.
5. Be Kind. Be Slow. He Gentle. Don’t rush to join the rat race.
Give this lil bud time to blossom and bloom at its pace.❤️❤️
I’m Shivani Kudva Your Educator and Counsellor. Link in bio to meet me.
#diapers_to_wings
Now I just put a few simple things on the table and let the kids do their thing.
One adds ketchup to everything. The other thinks chocolate belongs on every snack. 😂
Somehow, the less I stress about it, the more they enjoy it. And honestly? That’s a win in my book. 💛
We truly loved Tomato Sauce and Chocolate Sauce.
#LittleJoys #MomLife #SnackTime #RealParenting #KidsSnacks
Children don’t say they’re Upset. They say -
‘Will you play with me?’
‘Will you sit with me?’
‘Why are you so busy?’
‘Look at my drawing Ma’
‘I Don’t want to go Ma’
Children are little developing minds who Learn Adaptation and Co Existing with the Environment around them. They are very Intelligent and quickly adapt to the environment - For the Good or For the Bad😊
These slides are meant to be a reminder of how Little Moments Shape Children - There are No Big Moments of Memory, there are the small ones that make up Connection and Attachment.
The ruffle of hair
The smile at the school gate
The last bite of the meal fed by Ma
The roughhousing game with Pa
The Little Moments need Listening and Presence.
The Greatest Gift we can Give Our Children Is Time -
Diapers_to_Wings💖
I’m Shivani Kudva Your Counsellor and Educator. I help you with Healing, Therapy, Attachment and Connection. Link in bio to meet me.
#diapers_to_wings
We, Anushikha Your Educational Content Creator who creates simple, engaging learning ideas that nurture a lifelong love for learning.
And Shivani Your Counsellor and Educator helps you understand the power of Relationships and Love with Play, Discipline and Boundaries.
Here’s To the Unspoken Roles of Fathers this Fathers Day!
Dads don’t just raise kids — they wire their brains.
🧠 The Neuroscience Behind “Dad Power”
❤️ Dopamine & Adventure
When dads engage in playful, unpredictable play - kids’ brains release dopamine — the “feel-good” chemical that fuels motivation, curiosity, and learning.
❤️ The Oxytocin Circuit
Physical affection triggers Oxytocin - the bonding hormone. Dads who hug and comfort teach kids that love and safety can coexist.
❤️ Stress Regulation
Children with emotionally attuned fathers show lower Cortisol levels (stress hormone). When dad stays calm under pressure, he literally teaches the child’s nervous system how to self-regulate.
❤️ Identity & Self-Worth
A dad’s validation activates the same brain centers linked with self-esteem and reward. “I’m proud of you” becomes an internal voice that lasts a lifetime.
❤️ The Cool Buddy
The ‘Good Cop’ in the family comes with lesser boundaries and more fun! Dad is liberal with Screens and Gadgets and let’s be honest- Who doesn’t want that!🙃
❤️ The Way Dad treats his Spouse and other people around him is the Building Block of How Respect should look like 🫶
This Father’s Day, Let’s Love and Respect the Unconditional Love and Sacrifices by Fathers in the Pareting Relationship 💖
#toddlered #diaperstowings
#happyfathersday2026
Well -
Children are always Listening.
Whether they’re playing around, watching tv, just being around in the background or being silent observers.
What they Listen becomes their Perception of the World, Relationships and Situations.
Children are vulnerable and Not Mature enough to evaluate circumstances. They Start believing what the parents speak about People, Finances, Relationships and Situations.
Here is a list of conversations that children need not hear.
Well - before you say children should know Finances😁
Yes, they should definitely know…
But in Age Appropriate language because children get afraid first and Respond from a similar state of mind.
Children should definitely know Financial Planning, Budget restrictions, Budgeting, Financial Situations but First by Explaining the condition in Child appropriate language.
When children hear Spouses fight, They Literally Break from inside because-
1. They don’t know which side to choose.
2. They feel extremely insecure and afraid because you are their strongest comfort
3. They tend to pick one over another in the relationship
4. At times, they suppress anger and fear which explodes at other places!
I hope this Post helps you understand when you need to Step back and Reset what is happening at home.
Home is Safe Space❤️
Hope this helps 😊
In Shivani Kudva Your Coach and Educator. Link in bio to meet me. I help you repair relationships, family life and your connection with your child.
#diapers_to_wings
This is The Solution 😊Trust me - give your family 21 days and see the difference!
My 10 and 6 year both are in bed by 8 p.m. and how?!
Yes, it is indeed very tough and difficult to run evening hours and rush up work to hit the bed early.
What we get in exchange for rushed evening hours is a Multi faceted All round Growth and Development.
From hitting the bed at 10 to 8 pm for the kids, I have seen a world of difference myself.
Sharp changes that I observed-
1. Absolutely great Gut function because dinner happened between 6:30 and 7 pm. Almost around sunset.
2. Much much better Regulation and Responses even after a tired day.
3. Better Growth in terms of Height and Weight as well.
Sleep gives excellent release of Serotonin and Dopamine the happy and peacefully chemicals. It improves Melatonin functions and Deep skin and hair repair too❤️
4.Much much better Immunity because Sleep improves Cell production and Cell Efficiency.
Also for children, there is a world of difference between sleeping at 8 pm and sleeping at 9:30 pm. The Growth hormone surges in these hours😊
So how can we hit the bed early?
This works for us -
1. Homework immediately post school.
2. Screen time if any for a brief period followed by a small evening snack.
3. A Park trip OR Early dinner and Then an hour of park depending on when friends come to play🙃😊
4. Come in bed by 7:45 and play a board game or read a book to turn off the lights at 8:15😊
I know this is easier said than done But if Doing Early bedtime gives you so so many benefits for which we consult doctors - isn’t this Worthy enough?😊
Tell me - Are you with me in Taking up this Growth challenge 😊😊
I’m Shivani Kudva Your Educator and Coach. I help you live life mindfully with Food, Sleep, Love and Routines. Whether you’re a SAHM or a Working parent, I help you Align your discipline and love with your child. Link in bio to meet me.
#diapers_to_wings
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All about Family and The Impact we make this week😁
Family is where most decisions in Life are taken😊
Whether we regret those decisions later or not🙃
As children get older - home becomes more like a Den for them where they should feel Safe to seek refuge in - a place to shut out the shenanigans of the world and breathe Unjudged ❤️
Yes, it takes an effort to create this space.
But as a family our role is Prime in Defining the People that they will become.
The Little Rituals that we follow at home have a Profound impact on our children’s lives and personalities.
❤️ The Way. We Communicate
❤️ What we Speak About
❤️ How do We Conduct Ourselves
❤️ How do We Address their Mistakes
There are so many more. This is just to name a few.
Here is a List of Tremendously Powerful Rituals That have a Profound Impact on my child’s Academic Performance. Research backed data that helps you Help your child better🤗
Try these ideas - some if not all and see how it changes your child’s mindset and attitude.
I’m Shivani Kudva Your Coach and Educator. I bring you Neuroscience Based Research backed tools with a Blend of Spirituality and Love to Get you what you’re looking for😊 Link in bio to meet me. I can you Reset your family connection.
#diapers_to_wings
#familygoals #familyparenting #academicperformance
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Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach's engagement rate on Instagram is 2.69%, between 1% and 3%, or 1 to 3 likes and comments per 100 followers. On a typical post that comes to about 1 like or comment for every 37 followers. Likes outnumber comments by roughly 104 to 1, with 11,014 likes and 106 comments on an average post, so most reactions are taps rather than replies.
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Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach (@diapers_to_wings) is a Personal blog creator on Instagram, also filed under Travel. Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach carries Instagram's verified badge and uses an Instagram professional account. The Instagram bio for Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach runs to 19 words across 8 lines.
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Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach has 349,534 followers on Instagram (349.5K). Set against 3,224 accounts followed, the audience works out to about 108 followers per account Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach follows. Shivani Kudva | Parent Coach has built a substantial archive of 835 posts.
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